You’re
engaged, crushing the plans for your dream wedding, and now is the perfect occasion
to celebrate this exciting time with an engagement session.
Not
sure where to begin or how to prepare for your engagement session? Here are a
few pointers from the other side of the lens.
Location,
Location, Location
This
can be the single biggest challenge of the whole planning process – you want
these photos to be amazing, you might even use them for your save the dates, so
you want to pick a location that really compliments you as a couple.
The
best course of action is to pick a romantic location that is meaningful to you
as a couple - Perhaps a favorite date-night location, the spot where he
proposed or even just a place that you both really like.
Are you
both really into outdoor adventures, your favorite trail might be the best
choice. Prefer tapas and wine to running
around the woods, a sophisticated downtown location would work best for you.
The
most important thing is to NOT be a tourist.
Avoid landmarks and cliché locations and instead focus on a location
that really speaks to who you and your fiancé are as a couple. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did.
What to
wear
Some
people are natural fashionistas, blessed with this innate ability to look
amazing all the time – and then there is the rest of us, where the struggle
with what to wear is real.
Whether
you’re down with the latest in designer shoe trends or you prefer something a
little more casual, here are some universal tips that can help up anyone’s
fashion game.
1. Solid
colors are your friend. Avoid wearing things with strips or patterns. (simple
patterns are usually ok) They don’t often photograph well and can be
distracting to the viewer. Instead, keep
the silhouettes clean and colors simple and classic.
2. Keep
the accessories simple and to a minimum.
■ For the
guys, that means simple things like wearing your favorite watch or a simple,
seasonal accessory like a scarf or slouchy hat.
■ For the
ladies, stick with simple, coordinating pieces, and leave the handbag at home.
If you’re planning on wearing jewelry (besides your engagement ring) keep it a
simple piece like a necklace or bracelet.
3. Coordinate. Pair similar items together in a
complimentary way using your color palette as your starting point. Mix and match colors across both your outfits
to bring a cohesive feeling to what you both are wearing.
Get
Involved!
Get
involved with the planning process and include your photographer in on any
ideas you have! Some of the best shoots I’ve ever been on have been where the
couple is actively involved in the creative process and wants to collaborate on
the shoot.
So
don’t be afraid to share ideas, ask questions and get your hands dirty – after
all, these are your photos.
Even
with everything I just wrote the most important part of having a successful
engagement session is to play. Yes, that’s right – goof off, play. Laugh, be
silly, eat ice cream, and bring your playful A-game.
Engagement
sessions are meant to be fun! Most
people haven’t had their photograph taken professionally since high school, so
your engagement session is a fantastic opportunity to get to work with your
photographer before your wedding day when there is zero pressure. So, don’t be
afraid to laugh, tell each other silly jokes and enjoy the experience - after all, these are just photographs with the person
you love!